This is how you recently helped change the world a little.

By Eilat Aviram

Hello old friends and hello new friends.

I’m so glad so many of you have recently joined the intention to love yourself. I’m writing this letter to give you a personal update as to where I’m at, what I’ve been working on and where we are going together.

People keep asking me, “What happened with the Kindle launch?

How did it go?”

Well, it was AMAZING!

I wasn’t sure initially if it was a good idea to offer my book for free. I wavered uncertainly about having worked so hard on it and then just giving it away. I wanted people to have access to this information but I also wanted to look after my needs.

So of course, I asked myself the Love question and my answer was, “If I loved myself, I would just try it and see what happens.”

And I’m SO glad I took the chance and followed my Truth. Our Truth is SO clever. Turns out it was a very good idea to send it out into the world for free.

Over 800 people in 12 countries downloaded or signed up to get the book for free during the 48 hours. Since then I’ve been receiving emails and thank yous like this one from people I’ve never met who are already feeling more empowered as they read it.


“Thank you for writing an absolute gem of a book! Your book has given me the necessary inspiration to put myself first after a very tough year personally and professionally. I’ve been plucking up the courage to look for a psychologist for months and reading your book was the kick start I needed to reach out for the counselling that I need after going through what I’ve gone through.”


One woman’s email about how this book has brought her relief made me actually sit down and cry. I was so moved by what she wrote, tears just welled up – and what’s the point of a good cry if you can’t sit down to enjoy it?

As an ambassador of this Love Yourself message, I can’t tell you how joyful and thankful I am thinking about almost 1000 people – including you – starting to love themselves and follow their own unique Truth. I feel soul-fulfilled by it.

I know for a lot of you this book is the tip of the iceberg. You’ll go on to many more new things from this point as your Truth guides you. Others of you have been doing this work for a long time and my book may be the push you needed to move closer to more of you and I’m so curious and excited and happy about that

You’ve helped to make a real difference in the world. Thank you for downloading it, reading it, changing your lives and sharing the book with others. People around the world are finding support and transformation.

How cool is that?! Yay us!

I love to hear and share your stories, so let me know how it’s going and what experiences you’re having when you ask yourself the Love question. I’ll only share them with your permission.

I suggest you join the Facebook Group to share your stories, hear others and ask me questions.

I look forward to walking on this journey with you.

What next?

This has been a huge time of personal and professional growth for me. The last year and a half has been a practically vertical learning curve! After the launch I was exhausted and headed into the mountains to connect with nature and regroup. I could practically hear the hiss as the pressure released from me.  I had much-needed space to reflect on where my Truth tells me I want to go next.

This is what I know for sure:

love running my six-week Find Your Truth courses.

I’m energized by the Love Yourself While Parenting 3-hour workshops

and the Laser Transformation Process of just three private sessions with me, in person or online, where we focus on one specific topic have blown my mind with their power.

Seriously I sort of sit there with my jaw unattractively hanging open a lot. I can’t help it. People and their Truth just amaze and delight me. In the toughest of situations, the most painful experiences, when they ask their Truth for guidance they find surprising solutions and reassurances.

So this is my new stretch!

I’ve decided to accept the requests I’ve had to deliver my work in online workshops. Because there are people out there in 12 countries who just got my book and I want them to also be able to benefit from the support of these workshops.

Those of you who’ve attended my live workshops, know the powerful transformations that people start making as a result.

You can look forward to hearing from me in the next couple of weeks about how this will look and how we can move forward together.

PS Just a reminder, if you’re in Cape Town, the next live six-week course starts in less than two weeks on 28 October 2019. I keep group sizes small so book your place soon. See the details below.

Email me if you have questions info@ifilovedmyself.com

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Eilat Aviram is a Daring-Decisions Teacher.

She's worked with people for 25 years as a clinical psychologist, hypnotherapist, best-selling author, speaker and energy-healing teacher and she is passionate about helping people dare to love themselves in their moments of decision and find the courage to live their truth.

Eilat Aviram