💫 A Self Coming Home...
You care so much about others. And about the world.
You're quick to look after everyone else's needs - partly because it makes you happy and partly because you want to keep the peace. You're trying to please everyone and get everything 'right'...
But you can feel your sensitive system is constantly on high alert. And you can't understand it. You’re self-aware. Thoughtful. Capable. You should be fine - but you're not. You can feel you are living in survival mode. It's affecting your health and your mood. You keep eating stuff you shouldn't, or scrolling on your phone, or binging on series...
🔧You've Tried To Fix It
You're trying so hard to feel better. You’ve done the therapy, read the books, tried to stay “positive.” But underneath it all, you’re tired!
Tired of making disappointing choices.
Of betraying yourself by saying 'yes' when you long to say 'no'.
Of caring too much what others think.
Of looking after everyone else, while quietly leaving yourself out.
Or waiting for some kind of permission you’re not even sure you’re allowed to want...
💔 And Inside You Are Longing...
You just want peace. Freedom. A life that actually fits you.
To be at ease in your body...
Have quiet in your mind...
Feel connected to your heart...
You’ve been performing for everyone else for a long time. Now it’s time to be there for you.
The Portal of Permission is where this begins to be possible.
✨ What is This… Really?
The Portal of Permission is a membership where people who are sensitive, or who give too much, learn how to finally stop abandoning themselves - and start making brave, kind choices that change everything.
In The Portal, you’ll find out what simple, powerful steps help you listen to your truth, honour your needs, and rebuild deep self-trust – one tiny self-loving choice at a time.
And you may be surprised to discover that putting yourself first in this way actually improves your relationships. It makes you a better partner, a better parent, happier and more functional at work, better at managing your money, more masterful at looking after your health...
It's turns out that it's not actually selfish to love yourself and make your own needs important.
It helps everyone you love.
(It can even save you money! All that chocolate, impulsive shopping, medical bills and overdue payment fines add up!)
🌟 What Becomes Possible When You Start Choosing With Love?
Imagine waking up and knowing what you need – and then giving it to yourself!
Imagine saying “no” without guilt, or resting without shame. Imagine feeling satisfied with your choices and at peace with yourself - at work, at home, with your food, your money...
It's possible. it really is. You just need the tools and the support.
Inside The Portal of Permission we journey:
✔ From self-doubt to self-trust
✔ From people-pleasing to inner peace
✔ From burnout to soul-led living
✔ From “I don’t know how to choose myself” to “I am allowed to”
You won’t just learn self-love here. You’ll live it.
This is not about becoming someone new. It’s about re - membering yourself.
You’re not broken. You’re just exhausted from trying to make magic in a world that's told you it doesn’t exist.
But it does.
When you dare to tune into your own truth and follow it - even a little - your life shifts in astonishing ways.
Not because you exert willpower, or push yourself to change. Or because you 'should'. But simply because you finally let yourself matter.
🪄 Who’s Behind This Magic?
My name is Eilat Aviram. I'm a Daring-Decisions Teacher, clinical psychologist, hypnotherapist, international speaker, author of 'If You Loved Yourself, What Would You Do Now?' and 'You Have Permission to Exist'. (yes, apparently we need to be reminded of that!)
After 29 years of doing this work with thousands of people - and living it myself - I have seen a clear pattern:
The problem isn’t that we are broken, or not good-enough...
It’s that we have been taught to not listen to ourselves!
For years I’ve supported sensitive souls and high-functioning helpers learn to stop abandoning themselves.
I know what it’s like to doubt yourself, to feel too much, to be everyone’s anchor but your own. I also know the freedom that comes from finally saying, “No more.” And I know the profound relief of realising you are allowed to choose yourself.
This space is my offering to all of us - and to the part of you that’s whispering, “There has to be another way…”
There is. You've found it.
Welcome to The Portal of Permission.
🌈 Why This Actually Works (Even If Nothing Else Has)
You don’t need more books, or courses, or degrees. You need gentle tools, support, and space to be able to actually DO all the things you know you need to. You need community. You need kindness. You need permission.
This membership helps you actually do what your heart keeps whispering: Rest. Say no. Choose joy. Take the brave step. Say the scary thing. Stop overgiving. Start receiving.
And we're all doing it together, so you can see you're not the only one struggling with this!
Each piece of the Portal is carefully designed to walk you toward self-trust - one tiny, self-loving step at a time.
💖 What’s Inside the Portal?
There's a gentle rhythm of support - designed to help you take real steps toward a life that feels like yours again.
✨ Monthly Themes
Every month we'll focus on how to love yourself in a different area of life such as, boundaries food, money, relationships, self-talk and more. Each theme includes a:
- Short video from me on the month's topic (real talk, from my heart to yours)
- Check-in tasks or reflection prompts on the month's theme
- A short audio meditation on the topic
- Gentle, kind, realistic, self-loving goal-setting (yes, that's a real thing)
- Monthly live Q&A or coaching call with Eilat
- Daily love notes
- A community that gets it (that part is absolutely priceless!)
- Accountability buddies with like-minded, like-hearted members
- Private chat space where you don’t have to mask, explain, or pretend
- The Stages of Permission Map
🌹 Magical Bonus
✨ Training in the ALLOW YOU Method. My signature 5-step decision-making process that makes self-loving choices clear and doable.
This is structure – without pressure. Softness – with backbone. Safety – with soul and accountability. And community!
💖 A Self-Loving Pace
We don’t rush, hustle, or pressure here. We practice real, honest, self-loving choices. Tiny acts of truth. Gentle course-corrections.
Over time, that rewires everything!
💸 What Does It Cost to Come Home to Yourself?
Right now you have an amazing opportunity!
You can join as a Founding Member until midnight on Wednesday 2nd July.
As a founding member you keep this low price for as long as you stay in the community. It won't go up for you - even though it will for everyone else.
You pay only $30 / R300 per month
No contracts.
Cancel anytime.
This is an invitation, not an obligation.
Stay as long as it’s nourishing you. Leave whenever you choose - no hard feelings.
(Although to be very clear, if you leave as a founding member, you will lose your founding member price. But you can stop anytime and start again anytime at the regular membership rate.)
💫 Founding Member Perks.
Right now is a once-off opportunity to join as a Founding Member. This means that not only will you get the lower price, you will also be helping to build this magical space from the inside out with your feedback, ideas and requests.
As part of the very first small group, you'll have more time with Eilat and the group, get to suggest changes and share the experience of creating The Portal. You'll often get first access to new events and resources and your voice will be heard.
This price and opportunity is only available now until 2nd July 2025.
You missed out!
🌟 Founding member doors close soon – and this offer won’t return.
The next time The Portal doors open the price will have gone up.
If your heart is whispering yes to this…
Then simply click below and join.
🚪The Door Is Open — Are You Ready to Walk Through?
This is your moment.Your sacred YES.
You don’t need to do it perfectly.You don’t need to be anyone but who you are. You just need a soft place to land, a few loving tools, and the courage to ask:
“If I loved myself… what would I choose to do now?”
🧚♀️ Remember...
You don’t have to fix yourself. You just need a space that teaches you how to care for yourself – gently, consistently, and powerfully.
This is that space. Where healing meets magic. Where psychology meets permission. Where you finally remember how to be… you.
Welcome home.
The Portal of Permission Mission Statement
We are a sanctuary for the sensitive, the soulful, the caring and the quietly powerful. Here, we help you remember your magic — not through specific rituals, or striving for perfection, but through small, simple, self-loving choices that ripple powerfully into every corner of your life. Our mission is to blend psychology and soul, structure and softness, so that your healing becomes not just possible but inevitable. We guide you in learning the practical art of listening to yourself — and trusting what you hear. Here in the Portal of Permission you learn how to let yourself be you again and find the courage to choose what is right for you. It's a journey from living in survival mode to living in your truth. This isn’t just a membership. It’s a movement of quiet reclamation. Of daring to choose yourself. Every day. With tenderness, with courage, with consideration of others, and with a little bit of fairy dust.
"The Portal of Permission is a call to arms for every sensitive soul who’s been told their softness is weakness,
their magic is madness, and their kindness is naïveté." - Eilat Aviram