How To Be Proud Of Anything You Do

By Eilat Aviram

“This is intense!” is the phrase I keep hearing from clients and friends as they talk to me about navigating all the changes and fears and challenges of this crazy time.

There’s something I see again and again as I work with people to help them figure out what steps to take next to make their lives feel better to them. It’s this.

It’s not so much WHAT you choose to do but HOW you choose to do it that makes the real difference.

Like those nights you don’t feel like cooking, to take a daily example. You can do it because you HAVE to or you can do it because you decide that you’d rather be someone who cooked tonight than someone who didn’t.

The magic lies in the moment of realizing that even though cooking isn’t what you’d choose to do right now, being someone who cooked is very much what you choose for yourself. Suddenly, the cooking you don’t feel like doing becomes an act of self-care.

Why you do what you do, and how you do it dictates how you feel, before, during and after doing it. And how you feel is what makes your life what it is.

The way you do anything is what makes it something that satisfies you and that you feel proud of or not.

For example I’m immensely proud of my 21 Day Journey to Stop Being Scared of the Unknown. After a surprisingly long process I’ve finally managed to get it all beautifully prepared for you and housed on my website (You can find it HERE ).

I feel proud of this creation because I did it in a way I feel proud of.

Let me explain what I mean so that you can feel proud of your creations too.

(My friend said I should tell you right now that I’m giving you a gift in case you don’t read further. So before I share what will make you proud of yourself, I want to say thank you for being part of this community of people who are striving to love themselves and listen to their Truth more. Our world really needs people like you right now.

As my thank you, I’m giving you a 15% discount off the 21-Day Journey for the next 3 days. It’s just for the people who have signed up to get my emails.  NO CATCH. The coupon codes and details are below at the end of this mail and they are valid until midnight Sunday 9 August 2020.
Now you can keep reading. I’ll repeat the details at the end.)


Ok let’s go on.

In my work I hear the truth of how people are doing and as Covid-19 and lockdown happened, I really felt the need to send healing and soothing out into our world that is roiling with turmoil and fear.

We are all facing uncontrollable changes at the moment and it’s hard to know what the right thing is to do. Lots of emotions are flying around. People are worried about jobs and money and relationships and health… some are facing career changes, loss, family challenges…

So I offered a 21-day journey live on Facebook offering support and strategies to stay sane and empowered and make good decisions while living through all of this. People showed up daily and we all felt empowered by the discussions and tips that emerged.

I felt really good about it but that’s not why I’m so proud of this.

It’s taken me ages to bundle the journey and add value so that now you get 21 videos, 21 audios and 21 transcripts AND someone came up with the brilliant idea that I add a bonus of membership to a private Facebook group where I pop in and answer questions.

I’m relieved it’s done and excited to be able to offer all this and say, “Here is 11 hours of support and guidance for a third of the price of a single hour session with me.”

The people who have already done this journey have raved that they felt empowered with these tools and I’m so happy about that – but even that’s not the main reason I feel proud of it.

Ok here it is. The backstory is that the idea to do this didn’t pop into my head. It sort of emerged from the middle of my being. It blossomed in my heart.

I know people have already felt empowered with these tools – but that’s still not the main reason I feel proud of it.

Let me tell you what makes me feel so proud of this creation.The backstory is that the idea to do this didn’t pop into my head. It sort of emerged from the middle of my being. It blossomed in my heart.

I’ve never done live-streams before so when this idea to do a 21-day live supportive journey came to me, I decided to use it as an opportunity to practice what I teach – to live by following my inner truth’s guidance and see what happens. It was terrifying!

This is what I feel so proud of;

I turned towards my urges and inspirations step by step. I followed what felt good and right to me in that moment. And any time I felt unsure or anxious I asked, “If I loved myself, how would I do this now?”

It was AMAZING! A total act of trust.

I didn’t have a clue what I would talk about or what I would say about the topics even as they presented themselves to me each day. Initially that freaked me out but as I saw the wisdom and beauty that emerged every time, I learned to relax and trust more and more.

By the end I was comfortably letting Love speak through me.

And the product that resulted is something I wish everyone would get and absorb.

Skills I didn’t even realise I had gained from my twenty-four years of working with people poured through me like a multi-vitamin injection of life-skills for the heart, mind, body and spirit.

We talked about managing lockdown and Covid-19, but it actually became a fundamental life-skills course.

We discussed tips to strengthen resilience and improve your your health and quality of life for the rest of your life. It was a feast of simple yet powerful strategies and tools for living through any time of transition.

This morning I asked myself, “What do I really want from sending this journey out into the world to share it with others?”

My answer was, “To celebrate this work”.

It isn’t perfect at all. There are many things I could improve on but, as I’ve edited the transcripts and put together the audios, I’ve been amazed and inspired by what this journey has been for me and by the positive feedback I’m getting from those who are doing it or who have completed it.

But that’s not why I’m proud of it.

The reason I feel so proud of it is because it was a journey of following my own inner truth.

That is how you can be proud of anything you do.

Ask your heart what feels good and right to you and then follow that guidance step by step by step.

Trust in your own inner wisdom. It has SO much to offer you.

This 21-day journey proved to me yet again how the results of living this way are amazing and wise and beautiful.

Choose to stop being scared of the unknown. That’s what this journey was for me.

Here’s a sneak preview of the powerful tools for life that came through when I allowed love to speak through me.

Get it here (Don’t forget to scroll down to the bottom for your gift of 15% off coupon code!)

Empower yourself to cope with ANYTHING life throws at you.

It’s priced to be affordable so for the whole package of 21 videos, audios, transcripts AND support during and after the journey, it is only $49 (R299 for South Africans). That’s 11 hours of support for less than a third of one session with me.

You have more power than you realize – and as you watch the videos or listen to the audios, you will learn how to use your natural abilities to support and strengthen yourself so that you feel more confident to take the next steps in your life.

You’ll also benefit everyone in your life when you do this journey because you will be stronger and more able to look after yourself and support them during life’s challenges.

Let your heart help you decide what is most right for you. Ask, “If I loved myself, what would I choose to do now?”

If you have questions or comments just reply to this email.

If you’ve already done this journey I’d really love to hear how it was for you.

Sending you love and light

During the 21 days you’ll learn skills and tools to

  • Manage your fear and anxiety
  • Bravely face the unknown and understand why it’s so scary
  • Deal better with uncertainty, loss and change
  • Change your relationship with money
  • Know how to look after yourself better
  • Plan what you want for your life going forward
  • Trust that you’ll be OK
  • Have more harmony and understanding in your relationships
  • Instantly improve how you feel by choosing your words and thoughts
  • Love and accept yourself more instead of being critical of yourself
  • Create intimacy and closeness during social distancing
  • Know what feels good to you

People have found it immensely helpful

“I am just about finished your 21-day quarantine quest and it has changed my life.”

“Eilat’s 21-day Quarantine Quest was such a gift for me. Having lost my income during this period I would often wake up feeling depressed and lost and those 21 days with Eilat’s videos provided me with such an essential source of grounding, centering and self-nourishment on an emotional level. After each video I was always left feeling uplifted and re-inspired.”

“The 21-day quest with Eilat was an anchor of light for me in a confusing and dark time.”

“In the midst of massive uncertainty this 21-day quest supported me in finding a loving stable ground on which to rest. Thank you Eilat”

“To this day, Eilat’s teachings, profoundly put to the test in these days of lockdown, have viscerally changed my perception of fear and anxiety.”

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valid until midnight Sunday 9 August 2020.

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Eilat Aviram is a Daring-Decisions Teacher.

She's worked with people for 25 years as a clinical psychologist, hypnotherapist, best-selling author, speaker and energy-healing teacher and she is passionate about helping people dare to love themselves in their moments of decision and find the courage to live their truth.

Eilat Aviram