A Love Letter to People-Pleasers, Empaths and Sensitives

By Eilat Aviram


I know you are VERY hard on yourself.

I know you sometimes try so hard that you land up feeling overwhelmed and tearful.

I know you really want to do everything right so that your relationships are harmonious and everyone is happy and your work goes well and you feel at peace with yourself and the world…

I know you care very much about others and you do all you can to help them – sometimes at your cost…

I know you feel you have something within you that needs to be expressed into the world, and that you have a role to play in Earth’s healing somehow…

I know you have a deep sense that you have something important to offer – maybe you don’t know exactly what it is and maybe you do know – but you feel nervous about going for it and very scared to expose yourself and put yourself out there…

I know that you sometimes feel like you are a gift to the world and can do anything and other times you are washed over by such intense waves of self-doubt that you feel small and can’t move at all…

I know that you want to be good to your body but sometimes find yourself eating things that makes you feel bad and you regret later…

I know that you really want to be good to yourself and love yourself and follow your inner guidance but you aren’t really sure if what you want is ok or if it’s realistic or if it’s even allowed…

I know you just want to be yourself but you are nervous of how others will react to that…

I know that your inner critic often shouts you down.


I just want to tell you that I see you and I think you are beautiful.

Just as you are.

With ALL of this.

And I also want to affirm that if you see something, and you are drawn to it, IT IS YOURS TO DO.

How do you get there? How do you do the thing you dream of?

You learn how to follow your inner guidance step by step. You make choices that are what the REAL you wants, not the you that is complying with expectations and being ’good’ and convenient for others.

You learn to love yourself and make choices that are good for you while still being a person who cares about others.

It’s not you OR them. It’s you AND them. You can’t take your precious self out of the equation. We ALL lose out that way.

How do you do that?

I want to help you learn.

I teach people-pleasers, empaths, sensitives and others how to listen to their truth and make self-loving choices that also help others.

I’ll be doing a FREE training soon on decision-making for people-pleasers, empaths and sensitives.

No strings attached.

I just want to empower you so you bring more of your light into the world. We really need you to shine now.

Sign up now to be notified about the free training when it’s ready. I’m putting it together right now and I’m really hoping it will be ready very soon.

Even though it’s not quite ready yet, when you register now I will send you a free gift of two self-love exercises which can change your life if you do them regularly.

Please send this love letter on to your beloved people-pleasing, empath, sensitive friends. I want as many of us to rise up as possible. This is my stand and my activism to heal what is happening in our world right now.

Let’s do this together!


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Eilat Aviram is a Daring-Decisions Teacher.

She's worked with people for 25 years as a clinical psychologist, hypnotherapist, best-selling author, speaker and energy-healing teacher and she is passionate about helping people dare to love themselves in their moments of decision and find the courage to live their truth.

Eilat Aviram