🌟 So Much Can Change...
Imagine waking up and knowing what you need –
and then giving it to yourself!
Imagine saying “no” without guilt, or resting without shame.
And imagine doing all this and still having good relationships!
Imagine feeling good about your choices at work, at home, with your food, your money, your kids...
It's possible. It really is.
And it DOESN'T require willpower, or iron discipline, or super-organisation to make your life like you wish it could be.
Changing your life can be gentle, and kind and nourishing.
In The Portal of Permission you'll learn how to gently and naturally shift:
🌿 From self-doubt to self-trust
🌿 From people-pleasing to inner peace
🌿 From burnout to soul-led living
🌿 From “I don’t know how to choose myself” to “I am allowed to”
✨ What is This… Really?
The Portal of Permission is a membership where people who are caring, warm and sensitive, and who tend to give a lot to everyone else but not to themselves, learn how to finally stop abandoning themselves - and start making brave, kind choices that change everything.
In The Portal community, you’ll learn five simple, powerful steps that help you listen to your truth, honour your needs, and rebuild deep self-trust – one tiny self-loving choice at a time.
And you may be surprised to discover that putting yourself first in this way actually improves your relationships. It makes you a better friend, a nicer partner, a better parent, happier and more functional at work, better at managing your money, more masterful at looking after your health...
It's turns out that it's not actually selfish to love yourself and make your own needs important.
It improves your life in every way AND helps everyone you love.
🌟 What's Inside the Portal?
An amazing, warm, encouraging community of over 45 other wonderful people who are also learning how to love themselves better in their choices!
And a gentle rhythm of support, like a loving heartbeat - designed to help you take real steps toward a life that feels like yours again.
Every month we focus on how to love yourself in a different area of life such as:
- Boundaries
- Food
- Money
- Relationships
- Anxiety
- Self-talk and more...
💖 A Self-Loving Pace
We don’t rush, hustle, or pressure here. This is not a course, and it's not a bootcamp. It's a community! We support each other to learn and practice real, honest, self-loving choices. Tiny acts of truth. Gentle course-corrections.
There is nothing for you to 'get right' or rush, or 'do on time' in The Portal. You will find a lot of rich content and a lot of support - but no hustle.
Over time, that sort of consistent gentleness heals your frazzled nervous system and rewires everything!
AND it's actually more efficient.
✨ Each Month You Get
- Four weekly 4-min videos from Eilat on the month's theme (real talk, from my heart to yours)
- A 90-min live Q&A and coaching call with Eilat
- Two audio meditations to download on the month's topic
- Daily love notes
- A warm community of over 45 people who get it (that part is absolutely priceless!)
- Accountability buddies with like-minded, like-hearted members
- Private chat space where you don’t have to mask, explain, or pretend
- Gentle, kind, realistic, self-loving goal-setting (yes, that's a real thing)
- Check-in tasks or reflection prompts on the month's theme
🌹 Magical Bonuses
✨ Training in the ALLOW YOU Method.
My signature 5-step decision-making process that makes self-loving choices clear and doable. (Value $97)
✨ Training in How To Love Yourself.
My powerful 4 hour training in real, practical self-love (Value $85)
✨ The Stages of Permission Quiz and Map
To show you what stage of self-love you are in now and what will help you move forward now in your unique stage. (Value $25)
🌈 Why This Actually Works (Even If Nothing Else Has)
You don’t need more books, or courses, or degrees. You need gentle tools, support, and space to be able to actually DO all the things you know you need to. You need community. You need kindness. You need permission.
This membership helps you actually do what your heart keeps whispering: Rest. Say no. Choose joy. Take the brave step. Say the scary thing. Stop overgiving. Start receiving.
And we're all doing it together, so you can see you're not the only one struggling with this!
Each piece of the Portal is carefully designed to walk you toward self-trust - one tiny, self-loving step at a time.
When you dare to tune into your own truth and follow it - even a little, your life shifts in astonishing ways.
Not because you exert willpower, or push yourself to change. Or because you 'should'.
But simply because you finally let yourself matter.
💸 What Does It Cost to Come Home to Yourself?
For all of this loving support, community, live face-time with Eilat, life-changing methods, videos, meditations, skills AND bonuses valued at over $200, you only pay a third of one therapy session each month!
Only $35 or R350 per month.
No contracts or obligations. Just a monthly subscription.
You can try it out and cancel anytime. And then return whenever you want.
Stay as long as it nourishes you. Leave whenever you choose - no hard feelings.
This is an invitation, not an obligation. A safe space for you to be you. And to learn to do life differently.
If your heart is whispering yes to this…
Then simply click below and join now.
🪄 Who’s Behind This Magic?
My name is Eilat Aviram.
I'm a Daring-Decisions Teacher.
I teach a simple, powerful method to help you dare to love yourself in your moments of decision in your life.
I've been helping people love themselves better for 29 years in my work as a clinical psychologist, speaker, hypnotherapist, best-selling author and energy-healing teacher.
My passion is to support and empower sensitive, caring people who give too much, try too hard, and please everyone else while forgetting to look after themselves.
Together in The Portal we learn how to make choices that make us happy - and yet still benefit everyone and everything we care about!
After 29 years of doing this work with thousands of people - and living it myself - I have seen a clear pattern:
The problem isn’t that we are broken, or not good-enough...
It’s that we have been taught to not listen to ourselves!
So many of our problems are simply because we are overriding or ignoring that inner guidance we are born with. It's time to stop abandoning themselves!
I know what it’s like to doubt yourself, to feel too much, to be everyone’s anchor but your own.
I also know the freedom that comes from finally saying, “No more.” And I know the profound relief of realising you are allowed to choose yourself.
This space is my offering to all of us - and to the part of you that’s whispering, “There has to be another way…”
There is. You've just found it.
💫 Does This Sound Like You...?
You care so much about others. And about the world.
You're quick to look after everyone else's needs - partly because it makes you happy and partly because you want to keep the peace - or survive. You're trying to please everyone and get everything 'right'...
But you can feel your system is constantly on high alert. And you can't understand it. You’re self-aware. Thoughtful. Capable. You should be fine - but you're not. You know you're living in survival mode. It's affecting your health, your mood, your relationships... You keep eating stuff you shouldn't, or scrolling on your phone, or binging-watching your series instead of the stuff you want to be doing...
🔧You HAVE Tried To Fix It
You've tried everything to feel better. You’ve done the therapy, read the books, tried to stay “positive.” And now you’re just tired!
Tired of still feeling this way. Tired of still making disappointing choices. Of betraying yourself by saying 'yes' when you long to say 'no'. Of caring too much what others think. Of looking after everyone else, while quietly leaving yourself out. Or waiting for some kind of permission or magic trick to live your life...
💔 And Inside You Are Longing...
You just want peace. Freedom. A life that actually fits you.
To be at ease in your body...
Have quiet in your mind...
Feel connected to your heart...
Be with people who understand...
You’ve been performing for everyone else for a long time. You wish you could be there for you...
Well, you can. It's time.
Welcome to The Portal of Permission.
🧚♀️ This is your moment.Your sacred YES.
You don’t need to do it perfectly.You don’t need to be anyone but who you are. You just need a soft place to land, a few loving tools, and the courage to ask:
“If I loved myself… what would I choose to do now?”
You don’t have to fix yourself. You just need a space that teaches you how to care for yourself – gently, consistently, and powerfully.
This is that space. Where healing meets magic. Where psychology meets permission. Where you finally remember how to be… you.
Welcome home.
The Portal of Permission Mission Statement
The Portal of Permission is a sanctuary for the sensitive, the soulful, the caring and the quietly powerful. Here, you get to remember your magic - not through specific rituals, or striving for perfection, but through small, simple, self-loving choices that ripple powerfully into every corner of your life. The mission is to blend psychology and soul, structure and softness, so that your healing becomes not just possible but inevitable. You are guided in learning the practical art of listening to yourself - and trusting what you hear. Here in the Portal of Permission you learn how to let yourself be you again and find the courage to choose what is right for you. It's a journey from living in survival mode to living in your truth. This isn’t just a membership. It’s a movement of quiet reclamation. Of daring to choose yourself. Every day. With tenderness, with courage, with consideration of others, and with a little bit of fairy dust.
"The Portal of Permission is a call to arms for every sensitive soul who’s been told their softness is weakness,
their magic is madness, and their kindness is naïveté." - Eilat Aviram