💫 Are you like this...?
You care so much about others. And about the world.
You're quick to look after everyone else's needs - partly because it makes you happy and partly because you want to keep the peace. You're trying to please everyone and get everything 'right'...
But you can feel your system is constantly on high alert. And you can't understand it. You’re self-aware. Thoughtful. Capable. You should be fine - but you're not. You know you're living in survival mode. It's affecting your health, your mood, your relationships... You keep eating stuff you shouldn't, or scrolling on your phone, or binging-watching your series instead of the stuff you want to be doing...
🔧You HAVE Tried To Fix It
You've tried everything to feel better. You’ve done the therapy, read the books, tried to stay “positive.” And now you’re just tired!
Tired of still feeling this way. Tired of still making disappointing choices. Of betraying yourself by saying 'yes' when you long to say 'no'. Of caring too much what others think. Of looking after everyone else, while quietly leaving yourself out. Or waiting for some kind of permission or magic trick to live your life...
💔 And Inside You Are Longing...
You just want peace. Freedom. A life that actually fits you.
To be at ease in your body...
Have quiet in your mind...
Feel connected to your heart...
You’ve been performing for everyone else for a long time. You wish you could be there for you...
Well, you can. It's time.
Welcome to The Portal of Permission.
✨ What is This… Really?
The Portal of Permission is a membership where people who are sensitive, or who give too much, learn how to finally stop abandoning themselves - and start making brave, kind choices that change everything.
In The Portal, you’ll learn the five simple, powerful steps that help you listen to your truth, honour your needs, and rebuild deep self-trust – one tiny self-loving choice at a time.
And you may be surprised to discover that putting yourself first in this way actually improves your relationships. It makes you a better partner, a better parent, happier and more functional at work, better at managing your money, more masterful at looking after your health...
It's turns out that it's not actually selfish to love yourself and make your own needs important.
It improves things and helps everyone you love.
(It can even save you money! All that chocolate, impulsive shopping, medical bills and overdue payment fines add up!)
🌟 It Becomes Possible When You Start Choosing With Love
Imagine waking up and knowing what you need – and then giving it to yourself!
Imagine saying “no” without guilt, or resting without shame.
Imagine feeling good about your choices at work, at home, with your food, your money...
It's possible. it really is. You just need the right tools and the support to make it happen.
And it's NOT going to require willpower or rigid methods.
Inside The Portal of Permission you'll find the support to gently and naturally shift:
✔ From self-doubt to self-trust
✔ From people-pleasing to inner peace
✔ From burnout to soul-led living
✔ From “I don’t know how to choose myself” to “I am allowed to”
You won’t just learn self-love here. You’ll live it.
This is not about becoming someone new. It’s about re-membering yourself.
You’re not broken. You’re just exhausted from trying to make magic in a world that's told you it doesn’t exist.
But it does.
When you dare to tune into your own truth and follow it - even a little - your life shifts in astonishing ways.
Not because you exert willpower, or push yourself to change. Or because you 'should'.
But simply because you finally let yourself matter.
🪄 Who’s Behind This Magic?
My name is Eilat Aviram. I'm a Daring-Decisions Teacher, clinical psychologist, hypnotherapist, international speaker, author of 'If You Loved Yourself, What Would You Do Now?' and 'You Have Permission to Exist'. (yes, apparently we need to be reminded of that!)
After 29 years of doing this work with thousands of people - and living it myself - I have seen a clear pattern:
The problem isn’t that we are broken, or not good-enough...
It’s that we have been taught to not listen to ourselves!
For years I’ve supported sensitive souls and high-functioning helpers learn to stop abandoning themselves.
I know what it’s like to doubt yourself, to feel too much, to be everyone’s anchor but your own. I also know the freedom that comes from finally saying, “No more.” And I know the profound relief of realising you are allowed to choose yourself.
This space is my offering to all of us - and to the part of you that’s whispering, “There has to be another way…”
There is. You've found it in The Portal of Permission.
🌈 Why This Actually Works (Even If Nothing Else Has)
You don’t need more books, or courses, or degrees. You need gentle tools, support, and space to be able to actually DO all the things you know you need to. You need community. You need kindness. You need permission.
This membership helps you actually do what your heart keeps whispering: Rest. Say no. Choose joy. Take the brave step. Say the scary thing. Stop overgiving. Start receiving.
And we're all doing it together, so you can see you're not the only one struggling with this!
Each piece of the Portal is carefully designed to walk you toward self-trust - one tiny, self-loving step at a time.
💖 What’s Inside the Portal?
There's a gentle rhythm of support - designed to help you take real steps toward a life that feels like yours again.
✨ Monthly Themes
Every month we'll focus on how to love yourself in a different area of life such as, boundaries food, money, relationships, self-talk and more. Each theme includes a:
- Short weekly video from me on the month's topic (real talk, from my heart to yours)
- Gentle, kind, realistic, self-loving goal-setting (yes, that's a real thing)
- Check-in tasks or reflection prompts on the month's theme
- Monthly live Q&A or coaching call with Eilat with decision-making demonstrations
- Two monthly short audio meditations on the topic
- Daily love notes
- A community that gets it (that part is absolutely priceless!)
- Accountability buddies with like-minded, like-hearted members
- Private chat space where you don’t have to mask, explain, or pretend
🌹 Magical Bonuses
✨ Training in the ALLOW YOU Method. My signature 5-step decision-making process that makes self-loving choices clear and doable.
✨ The Stages of Permission Quiz and Map to show you what stage of self-love you are in now and what will help you move forward now in your unique stage.
This is structure – without pressure. Softness – with backbone. Safety – with soul and accountability. And community!
💖 A Self-Loving Pace
We don’t rush, hustle, or pressure here. We practice real, honest, self-loving choices. Tiny acts of truth. Gentle course-corrections.
Over time, that rewires everything!
💸 What Does It Cost to Come Home to Yourself?
For all of this loving support, community and life-changing skills, you pay less than half of one therapy session.
And you get so much.
Only $35 or R350 per month.
No contracts or obligations.
You can try it out and cancel anytime. And also return whenever you want.
Stay as long as it nourishes you. Leave whenever you choose - no hard feelings.
This is an invitation, not an obligation. A safe space for you to be you. And to learn to do life differently.
If your heart is whispering yes to this…
Then simply click below and join now.
🧚♀️ This is your moment.Your sacred YES.
You don’t need to do it perfectly.You don’t need to be anyone but who you are. You just need a soft place to land, a few loving tools, and the courage to ask:
“If I loved myself… what would I choose to do now?”
You don’t have to fix yourself. You just need a space that teaches you how to care for yourself – gently, consistently, and powerfully.
This is that space. Where healing meets magic. Where psychology meets permission. Where you finally remember how to be… you.
Welcome home.
The Portal of Permission Mission Statement
The Portal of Permission is a sanctuary for the sensitive, the soulful, the caring and the quietly powerful. Here, you get to remember your magic - not through specific rituals, or striving for perfection, but through small, simple, self-loving choices that ripple powerfully into every corner of your life. The mission is to blend psychology and soul, structure and softness, so that your healing becomes not just possible but inevitable. You are guided in learning the practical art of listening to yourself - and trusting what you hear. Here in the Portal of Permission you learn how to let yourself be you again and find the courage to choose what is right for you. It's a journey from living in survival mode to living in your truth. This isn’t just a membership. It’s a movement of quiet reclamation. Of daring to choose yourself. Every day. With tenderness, with courage, with consideration of others, and with a little bit of fairy dust.
"The Portal of Permission is a call to arms for every sensitive soul who’s been told their softness is weakness,
their magic is madness, and their kindness is naïveté." - Eilat Aviram