Hi, I’m Eilat

 I’m so glad you’ve found this site. To me it means you’re ready to hear this message:

You are here to live as yourself. That is your life’s purpose. Anything else makes no sense at all.

You are the gift you have to give to the world. Just you, as you are – the unique combination of thoughts, behaviours, intentions, hopes, feelings and experiences that is you. It absolutely serves you better – serves all of us better – if you listen to your own Truth and allow yourself to simply be you. If you try to live as anyone other than yourself, we all lose out.

This website and book offer a single tool – and it’s so effective it could solve all your problems. That’s because this astonishingly easy-to-use tool is just one question –  a question that connects you to your own heart’s Truth and wisdom:

If you loved yourself, what would you do now?

You’re the one who knows everything about your life, your problems and your dreams, so when you ask your own Truth for guidance on what to do next, the answers come from an unsurpassed expert – you. For over 10 years I’ve watched this question transform people’s lives for the better. Are you ready to follow your Truth to the life of your dreams?

Professional Bio


My name’s Eilat Aviram (pronounced Ay-lutt).

I’m a clinical psychologist, hypnotherapist, energy-healing teacher, speaker, group and workshop facilitator, author and illustrator – and I love all of it passionately! (Otherwise I wouldn’t do it. I practice what I preach :))

I’ve worked in private practice and psychiatric hospitals and clinics for 12 years and as an energy healing teacher for 22 years.

After many years of seeing why people struggle and learning ways to help them find self-love and health, I’ve seen that the underlying ailment of most humans I’ve worked with, is that he or she somehow believes something about them must change before they can be okay – and they’re looking outside of themselves for direction. This assumption is not true and it’s not helpful.

When someone first comes to see me, broken and beaten down by something in their life, I know that what I’m seeing is the ‘Before’ picture. Now who doesn’t love watching a good makeover? When people learn about listening for their own Truth and loving themselves by meeting their needs, golden light begins to re-enter their greyness. As they start to make daily choices guided by their Truth – usually immediately because this question is so easy to learn to use – their lives quickly morph into what they’ve most wanted. I see tremendous transformations in my clients and everyone around them when they use this question.

Last week someone I’ve seen for six sessions lifted his eyes to me in nervous amazement and asked, “This isn’t a dream, is it? This is actually happening to me, right?”

I’ve written this book and created this website so that I can share this with more people. To let you also know the power you have when you tune into your own loving guidance system. Imagine the wonderful world we can create when each of us lovingly follows our inner guidance and attends to our own needs…

Be the source of your own love.

At some point in life many of us seem to shift from knowing love and being love to thinking that other people are responsible for giving us love. This shift only happens if we disconnect from knowing that we are the source of love. When you are the source of your own love, it won’t occur to you to look outside of yourself to get that love because you will feel and know it all the time. Loving others and receiving love from them will just be a fun addition to how you always feel. So ask yourself;

If I loved myself, what would I choose to do right now in this moment?

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