Can I DARE to do it?

A few years ago I was faced with a very scary and exciting choice.

I had found a course that offered the tools and support I needed to get to the next level of where I most wanted to go.


It was like someone had taken my secret wish-list out of my head and written it down on paper. Stuff I hadn’t told ANYONE I wanted… there it all was.

So I obviously wanted to do it.

Really badly.


It was expensive - both financially and in terms of time and energy. It meant other people would have to pick up some slack while I was doing it because I wouldn’t be able to continue all my current responsibilities.

It would be inconvenient for some beloved people in my life and they weren’t going to like me doing this.

Not one bit.

In fact, it would probably make them angry and resentful.

What was I to do?

I reeeeaaallly wanted this. So much.

But then there were my loved ones…

I’ve faced many choices in my life, but there was something fundamental about this particular choice.

Because I had to ask myself these questions:

"Who am I allowing to make my life choices for me?"

"What am I willing to compromise in order to make others happy?"

Oh my goodness it was such a painful experience!

Eventually what it came down to was, “Am I going to allow myself to exist or not?”

"Am I going to stand up and let myself want what I want and express my truth, or am I going to choose the path that seems easier right now but that will probably lead me to resentment and depression later?”

I felt like if I said no to myself in that moment, a part of me would curl up and die. If I didn't do this, I would live in a flatline state afterwards.

But if I said yes to myself, I was going to have to face some major restructuring of my life and relationships.

Either choice was very scary.

So I asked the Love Question.

And I asked it and I asked it and I asked it again.

And the answers didn’t feel good.

They made me more stressed.

They frightened me.

They were head answers, you see? Not heart responses.

I was actually too scared to listen to what my heart was telling me.

But then, finally, I asked it again and when I got my answer my whole body relaxed and everything felt clear and obvious.

Now, you’re probably longing to know which way I chose to go. But that’s not at all important.

What was important is that I gave myself permission to make the choice based on MY truth. Not anybody else’s.

I gave myself permission to exist.

I listened to my heart.

I allowed myself to walk as I most longed to walk.

After I made the choice, once it was done and I couldn't undo it, I had a moment of sheer panic. "What have I done?!!!"

And then I said to myself, “No. We’re not doing that. I made this choice by listening bravely to my Truth so I’m not going to doubt it, no matter how it turns out. Whatever happens, I know this is the right choice for me at this time.”

And I never doubted it again even though things got tough later.

That’s part of the gift of using this method.

Less doubt and no regret, no matter what happens.


If you’ve been watching the free training then you know this is the last day you can sign up for the course if you’re a doctor, nurse, therapist, coach, healer of any kind,  How To Love Yourself In Your Decisions.

I hope my story helps you make your heart-choice about whether you will join this amazing journey of transformation and be part of a wonderful supportive group of colleagues.

Are you ready to become someone who is more satisfied with your your life, and is comfortable and confident with making good choices?

Do you want to gain your whole year’s CPD/CCE units for learning to love yourself?

Make sure whatever you choose - to join the course or not - you wake up tomorrow morning at peace with your heart.

Ask yourself, “If I loved myself, what would I choose to do now? What would I say to myself now?"

Click the button below and sign up now. Tonight this opportunity closes.

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  1. I feel so jealous to those that are able to do this training right now! I found myself smiling through your videos Eilat, I know I'm going to be missing out big time on this transformational journey but after considering my unavailability after making conscious commitments and actually asking myself the love questions on those aspects too, I am feeling OK about patiently waiting another year for the next training for Healthcare practitioners!! Please do keep me updated. Have fun😁

    1. It will be wonderful to have you join us in the next round.

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